A writer writes thoughts, feelings, ideas, and many more. Some are there who write only for them and some write for others. But the satisfaction of a writer comes from his or her instinct.
As a child, I was very introverted and this became a factor for which I used to write my beliefs in the form of a poem, quotes, stories, and sometimes songs. But those were unpublished or you can say confidential. The shy girl didn’t want others to come to know her feelings or her creativity (height of self-doubt).
But, I loved to play with words. I loved to organize them beautifully. I don’t know why others write but I know I write to make my soul happy.
Time flies..and you don’t know how it changes you entirely. I was changed to an introverted extrovert and chose to work in sales and marketing. Life was like “the wheels of the bus go round and round”.
The same routine for every day. For more than one year I didn’t touch my diary where I used to write my musings. I don’t think it happens to others but for me, I found myself zero creative.
And again, I want to play with words. It’s the way I can again make my soul happy.
Understanding people is more significant than understanding a product. When you observe someone very carefully you will be able to find some particular type of trait in him or her. That person’s behaviour, attitudes or expression can give a hint of his personality.
It doesn’t matter what you are. It matters how you present yourself and that depends on your interpersonal skill. That’s why interpersonal skill has a significant role in developing your personality. It is the bundle of your social elegances, positiveness, passion, manners and communication.
Simply, interpersonal skill means that skill through which we interact with an individual or a group. But this chapter is very large. Because this skill is related to all sectors of our everyday life. At home, at the job, in society, or the virtual world, this skill reflects your personality. One biggest truth about interpersonal skills is, either you are blessed with them naturally or you have learned them. And to learn them you must aware of them.
You wear confidence and you become outstanding. Your self-confidence helps you to effectively interact with others and the beauty of a confident individual is always admired by all. All
A huge void is everywhere today. We don’t know where we are heading to. The void due to uncertainty of life, the void due to fear of losing someone is today’s reality. Keeping distance is the medicine of today’s illness. Gone are days when we celebrate togetherness.
Life indoors is more difficult to carry on. But we are helpless because we can not see our enemy. Was it our destiny? Millions of people taking their last breath because breathing is now the most expensive thing. Can we just play hide and seek or stand fearless in front of this pandemic?
Today being positive is no more positive. But we are positive, Positive towards a new dawn. Who will bring this new light? We together or alone? Let’s keep aside all the fear and anxiety and think about whom you are carrying in your heart now and then. Distances can not stop you to carry someone in your heart.
Although there is silence everywhere, we are still busy in our lives. We have many great deals on our heads. What will happen next? We are busy with our frustration, we are busy with our plans, gossip, anger and more. Relax and ask yourself, when there is a better option then why are all these keeping us busy? Yes, there is a better option to stay busy and it is you. You can find yourself in a new way. Listen to your heart and body, it has been whispering to you for many years. Do not ignore it as before. Spread love and care and start it with yourself.
A little thing can work big. A tiny word has a strong meaning. And there is a book, which can change the way of living.
Love for books is quite different. Because you are addicted to something good. A meaningful and remarkable book can steal your time like a wind. If you are a reader you acknowledge this.
Still untouched..😔
On this particular day, I think people need to develop a reading habit to come out of rolling gadgets. A book never deceives you, a book never makes you feel lonely. To feed your mind, to express your self-taught, no doubt, a book is the best option. Choice is yours.
It may be a comic or a heavy biography, it may be a simple storybook or a novel, it doesn’t matter. What you love to read, that matters. It’s my opinion. What do you think about it?
It is a big dilemma that… life is short when you like it and life becomes very long when you do not enjoy it. Above all, we live life with joy and grief, with struggle and glory. It has many stages but we live so many times to die once. Just after birth, we start to play many roles. A script has written for you where you have to play many roles and you may not get the best performer award, you may not be the superstar but still, you can sparkle like a star.
It was difficult for me to stay away from what I love. Without reading and writing, I was just struggling with my hard days due to bad health conditions. But there was something that always realizes me pick up stones of my path and built a staircase to step upwards.
Although life is not abed of roses. Hardships are there to make or to break you, but nobody is there without testing life’s hardship. In my hard time, I prefer to read and repeat these beautiful lines in life.
“Life has many ways of testing a person’s will, either by having nothing happen at all or by having everything happen all at once.”-Paulo Coelho
“I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.”- Og Mandino
” In tough times, everyone has to take their share of the pain.”-Theresa May
Do women need a special day to celebrate? I always have this question in my mind. Every day should be women’s day, men’s day, humans’ day. But to celebrate it especially, of course, go with it. Adore all ladies in your life a little more on this day or thank them for their existence, which makes a difference in your life.
But where are the women today? Are they happy to say a “Happy women’s day”? It’s been a long way since women fighting with enormous foes to live with dignity. When they transform a house into a home, when giving birth to a life, when they prepare a meal, have they been saluted for all? Why they need a special treat when every second a woman dies for a dowry when every day a girl child is killed in a womb of a woman itself. The way a woman said goodbye on the bank of the river Sabarmati was one of the cruel truths of today’s society. Is she one and only, no,there are millions of women still waiting for a river Sabarmati to accept her.
Time has been changed. The brain is added with beauty. When she, the woman starts to believe in herself and opens her wings to fly high, stop dragging her to her odds.
She, the woman, not just a body. Respect her existence and let the mother sleep peacefully rather than haunt her with that worry of hiding her daughter from the hungry eyes which measure her statistics.
To be very honest, I am a woman and that’s my gender, not my specialty. When you have to celebrate women’s hood, establish equality, and celebrate humanity. Don’t ask a man for it, ask yourself when and how you feel as a woman that you should be treated equally by society. Before everything smashed between feminism and pseudo feminism I want to choose today and always humanism proudly.
But above all, if there is a little way to celebrate life and never miss the opportunity. Be happy to say Happy women’s day to the world where women still live with uncertainty.
Disclaimer
I love to spread positivity to make life beautiful but on this special day, I didn’t find any option rather than to show a bit of reality. It’s my point of view, but still, I respect each and everyone’s emotions. You may not think like me but you and I always “we”. We…we are women, we are human.
Award time..wow!! It’s an amazing feeling and I am super excited that I got this award nomination. My blogging journey started in October 2020 and I have around 300 great followers. I don’t know how many of them know me but one wonderful thing is that some amazing bloggers always encourage me with their beautiful words. Among them, is Mr. Lokesh Sastya, who nominated me for this wonderful award.
I thank Lokesh Sastya, The Gondwanaland for nominating me for Liebster Award. Lokesh is an honest and very decent person who always inspires his readers with his art of imagination. His blogs are pieces of an aspiring self, full of positivity and enthusiasm. I wish all his dreams come true
Coming to the award.
Rules
1.Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
2.Answer the 11 questions given to you.
3.Nominate 11 other bloggers.
4.Ask your nominee 11 questions.
5.Notify your nominees once you have uploaded your post.
Here are my answers to Lokesh’s questions.
1.Your all-time favoritebook/movie?
There are so many on the list but if I have to mention one, then it is The monk who sold his Ferrari by Robin Sarma. This book is about the purpose of life, about devotion to life. The importance of selflessly serving others, living in the present, self-discipline, self-mastery, power of words, power of silence, opposite thinking, and many lessons that I found from the book which are firmly taking off benefit me in my daily life.
2.Iced coffee or milk tea?
Milk tea.
3.If you had the ability to turn back time, what period would you return to?
Wow, if I had the ability to turn back time…I will do so many things and one is I will get back my father whom I lost at the age of 16.
4. If you could swap lives with a celebrityfor a day, who would it be?
No specific name, but probably with a celebrity author or a celebrity motivational speaker.
5. If this pandemic never existed, what would you be doing right now?
I am a homemaker, a stay-at-home mother and I don’t think the existence of a pandemic makes any difference in a stay-at-home mother’s life. But due to this pandemic situation, I acknowledged what is the value of optimism in life.
6. If you could get rid of any vegetable or fruit in the entire world, what would it be and why?
I have likes and dislikes but I eat almost every fruit and vegetable.
7.Name one musical instrument have always wanted to learn how to play?
Violin. This musical instrument always attacks me. I enjoy the way musicians play the violin.
8. If you have the opportunity to make up a word and have it added to the dictionary, what it would be and what does it mean?
One word of my own would be chinka. It’s my daughter’s word and the meaning is chicken 😄 I love the way she used to chinka for chicken.
9. Name three items from your wishlist.
a. A big library.
b. A farmhouse where I can grow so many organic veggies and fruits along with colorful blossoms.
c. Set up a free kitchen for the needy, whom I meet on every sidewalk in my city.
10. If you could meet one famous person dead or alive, who would it be and why?
Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam, Ex-President of India, The Missile Man. I admire his philosophy of life, his every quote is realistic. He was an example of a real icon.
11. Your life goals. Name at least two
a. Write more and more and publish my book.
b. Free from Fibromyalgia🙏
Now I have to nominate 11 people. It’s hard to choose only 11 among all. So with the same questions, I would love to nominate you all.
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