We are blessed because we can think and rethink. We can think before we act. The way we act thoughtlessly sometimes gives a horrible outcome. And then the rest is painful.
Going through a lot of circumstances, you can easily find that your repeated thinking has made your decisions more efficient. There is no The End of anything until you ask yourself to conclude it. There are certain factors that you need to apply as fully a pause as possible.
Think again about your Expectations
I can not say that you shouldn’t expect anything from anyone. There is nothing bad if you have certain expectations from your near and dear one. But think again about what you are expecting and how much? Are you becoming the selfish one who cares only about self-expectations? Is it good to speak always about your sentiment, attitude, affection, or dreams? Remember, no one is there for you to fill your expectations every time. You must realize the rule of expectation, Give and Take. Think again, are you willing to give that affection to others, are you willing to respect others’ sentiment? How much you care for others, if not, then why these expectations? Doing this, inadvertently you hand over your happiness to others. Because when you see someone not meeting your expectation, you get frustrated. It means that you are being controlled by others. So, come out of the self-centric cave and limit your expectations. Decrease your expectations to gain your happiness.
Think again before explaining.
Do you think people want your explanation? If someone wants to criticize you, he will somehow detect a small point for that. You cannot satisfy everyone. And those who care about you will never ask you for an explanation. Better think again and do what you love to do( but respect the laws and orders and be a sensible one). By explaining to others about yourself means you are not confident enough and you seek Validation from others. You can stop seeking validation by yourself.
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Think again before making an excuse.
Excuses never work. You can give any excuse to others for your failure or loss. But what you should say to yourself. Any excuses? Before making an excuse think again, this is a lie you are telling yourself. Although sometimes excuses don’t harm you but take away you from yourself. This is how you deny to accept yourself as you are. The first thing you should avoid making excuses for is to take responsibility for your failure. Do not play the blame game. Because almost all of us have this tendency that, blame others for our mistakes. However, some people never play this game because they take responsibility for their every loss and win.
Focus on your strength to stay away from making excuses. It works as an immune booster. When you focus on your strengths and make them more productive, you build more dignity in yourself. As a result, you gain more confidence to work on your weakness.
Conclusion
Think again about these three E’s,
1.Expectation
2.Explanation
3.Excuses.
The way we think the way we live. If you want to live a life more productive and fruitful, think about those for which you are making your life unnecessarily complicated. It depends on you what you want to be, think again.
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I can relate with the topic. I would like to be more clearer, more strong. We should develop our understanding. It is true we cannot satisfy everyone, we can try to be better .
I appreciate your post Rosida. It is valuable and useful. I hope people get helped by it.👍
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Thank you so much, Lokesh for your wise words. The level of understanding always matters. I am glad to know your views.
Have a great day🥰
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you too, enjoy 😀.
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Very well written article 😃. Clarity of thought is really important.💗
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Thanks a lot dear Anjali, for your visit and support. This means a lot to me. Agree with your opinion❤❤
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My sincere pleasure 💗.
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Great write up Rosida!!!!
This is a great line “Focus on your strength to stay away from making excuses. It works as an immune booster.” Soooo true!❤️
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I am so glad that you liked it. Thank you for your continued support, this encourages me a lot💞🌼
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I sure you and you’re most welcome!❤️
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Much love❤❤
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❤️💖💖
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It’s Great post and every line is lesson and message in practical life. I am of the opinion and thinking that we should have zero expections from this materialistic world. I personally believe in philosophy of ” karma”.Do your best and leave the results to time and cosmic consciousness.ok bye for now have a great weekend.🌷🌷🌷
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Thank you for adding your valuable opinion. Agree with you. I do believe in ”Karma”. We need to do our best.
Wish you a great weekend too🌸🌼
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Well…think before,think after,think everyday of your life.Thinking is a process we must follow before acting.
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Indeed..think before you act. Thanks for your valuable comment and support.
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There is so much depth and power in your writing.
Thank you for sharing this with us, it was a great read.
Wishing you all the very best for your future writings!!
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My sincere gratitude 🧡
Many thanks for encouraging me with your wise words. Have a great day.
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You are absolutely right. We have to think and rethink before acting. We always say in our minds (Treat people the same way you want them to treat you) if we do so, everything will be perfect.
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You are right. Thanks a lot for your visit and for sharing your opinion.
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You are the most welcome, hope to be followers to each others and share the comments.
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Definitely 🙌
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Thank you so much, i would be happy to read
and follow your blogs.
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